How young adults can properly adjust to life outside school

Labour Cabinet Secretary Dr Alfred Mutua with lucky jobseekers displaying their job offers at Machakos Technical Institute for the Blind recently. There is a lot awaiting school leavers who just finished their KCSE.

The 2024 KCSE examination is now done and dusted. It is time to sigh with relief as the parents and students reflect on this great educational milestone. Congratulations are in order. It is time now to move from grade to growth. In the meantime, allow me to walk you on a journey of some of the pitfalls to avoid.

The conclusion of the KCSE exams marks a significant milestone for thousands of students across Kenya. For the Class of 2024, the end of their high school journey opens the door to a period of transition, reflection, and the anticipation of what lies ahead. While it is a time to celebrate, this newfound freedom can also lead to several pitfalls that could jeopardize the students’ safety and well-being if they’re not cautious. As students prepare to embark on new paths, it’s vital to be mindful of these potential hazards and adopt strategies to stay safe and productive.

Peer pressure and risky behaviour

One of the most significant dangers facing students after completing their exams is peer pressure. For many, the freedom after years of structured schooling can feel overwhelming, and the temptation to fit in with friends who engage in risky behavior becomes heightened. Some may feel drawn to experiment with alcohol, drugs, or other harmful substances as a way of celebrating or “living in the moment.”

It is crucial to remember that the consequences of such choices can be far-reaching. Drug and alcohol use not only jeopardizes one’s health but can also lead to legal trouble, accidents, or addiction. The importance of exercising sound judgment and avoiding activities that may lead to harm cannot be overstated. Surrounding oneself with friends who prioritize healthy lifestyles and positive decision-making is key to staying on the right track.

Navigating the online world safely

In today’s digital age, more students are likely to spend their time online, whether it’s on social media, gaming platforms, or browsing the internet. While this provides a world of entertainment, education, and connection, it also comes with its own set of risks. Many young people fall prey to cybercrime, scams, and online predators who exploit their inexperience.

To stay safe online, students should be vigilant about their privacy and avoid sharing personal information with strangers. Interactions with unfamiliar people on social media platforms or online dating sites should be approached with extreme caution. Additionally, it’s important to be wary of scams offering quick money, fake job opportunities, or suspicious investment schemes that might drain financial resources or expose sensitive data.

Unplanned and risky adventures

After months of intense study, many students will crave adventure and exploration. While this is natural and often a great way to unwind, it’s essential to approach these activities with caution. Unplanned trips or parties, especially those that involve traveling to unfamiliar places, can pose significant safety risks. Students should avoid engaging in activities that might compromise their safety, such as traveling alone to remote areas or engaging in extreme sports without proper guidance.

Additionally, some may be tempted to join parties that go late into the night, often with little regard for security. Being mindful of personal safety and ensuring that one has a secure way to get home are important aspects of responsible behavior during celebrations. Students should also inform trusted friends or family members about their whereabouts when attending events.

Managing financial independence

The post-KCSE period can also be a time when many students receive financial gifts or allowances from family and well-wishers as a way of congratulating them on completing their exams. Without proper financial management, however, it is easy to fall into the trap of spending money recklessly on non-essential items, entertainment, or luxuries that quickly drain resources.

Developing financial discipline at this stage is crucial. Students should be encouraged to save some of their money or use it to invest in their future by enrolling in short courses, buying books, or even starting small businesses. Understanding the value of money and how to manage it will set a strong foundation for the future, especially when they transition into college or the workforce.

Avoiding unnecessary relationships and distractions

For many young people, the end of high school may also bring with it increased pressure to engage in romantic relationships. While relationships can be a positive part of life, entering into them without maturity or emotional readiness can lead to emotional distress, distractions, and even regrettable decisions.

It is important for students to focus on personal growth and self-discovery during this period rather than rushing into relationships. By prioritizing their goals, such as pursuing higher education, internships, or skill development, they can avoid unnecessary distractions and heartbreak. Building a strong sense of self-awareness will also help them make wiser choices in the future.

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Combating idleness and staying productive

The long break before joining university or entering the workforce can easily lead to idleness, especially for those who do not have structured activities to fill their time. Idleness can, in turn, lead to unhealthy habits like excessive screen time, overeating, or engaging in non-productive activities.

To avoid this pitfall, students should make an effort to stay productive by seeking internships, engaging in community service, or taking up new hobbies that can help them develop skills. Volunteering with organizations such as the Red Cross or joining youth groups can also provide valuable experiences that contribute to personal growth and look good on a CV. Additionally, engaging in sports, learning new skills like coding or photography, or reading books can help students stay active and purposeful.

Dealing with unemployment stress

Finally, the reality of unemployment or uncertainty about the future can cause stress for some students during this transition period. The pressure of not knowing what to do next can lead to anxiety, depression, or feelings of hopelessness.

To combat this, students should be encouraged to maintain a positive outlook and take proactive steps toward their future. Setting short-term goals, such as applying for courses, starting a side business, or improving their skills, can provide a sense of direction and purpose. Talking to mentors, family, or career counselors can also provide guidance and support.

The period after KCSE exams is an exciting and liberating time for students, but it is also a time of increased responsibility. By being mindful of these potential pitfalls and making conscious, well-informed choices, the Class of 2024 can ensure they stay safe, productive, and well-prepared for the next chapter of their lives. As they navigate this transition, it’s essential to focus on personal growth, financial discipline, and maintaining positive relationships that will support their future success.

By Kamomonti wa Kiambati

Kiambati teaches English and Literature in Gatundu North Sub-county.

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